Believe in yourself and you become irresistible!

There is something very attractive about someone who knows what they’re doing. Someone who knows where they’re going, and what they want.

And something pretty unattractive about someone who is dithering, flannelling, with no real idea of what they’re here on this planet for!

Such people are often those who ask questions of others all the time - which is fine and good! - but they don’t listen or act on the advice they’ve been given.

They keep asking in the hope that an answer will come that fits in with where they are right now, which is possibly … nowhere.

They are looking for validation for their inactivity.

Compass

Now one of the reasons they may struggle is because they lack a compass to guide them. They don’t know what their values are, so they don’t know what to look for in life that will align with those values.

As Lewis Carroll said,

“If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there.”

And of course, if you don’t know where you’re going, you’re not likely to end up anywhere you’d like to be!

Life will happen to you. It’ll toss you this way and that, and you’ll be powerless to control your direction.

But it doesn’t have to be like this! 

Simply looking at what is important to you in your life - which could be totally different from what’s important to your friends and family - will show you where you should be headed.

It’s time for you to take the lead in your own life. You know you have something special to offer the world. When it comes down to it we are the ones responsible for where we go and what we do. You may like to think that you are being constrained by circumstance … but who made that circumstance?

’Twas you.

And if you want a different circumstance, just make it.

Once you know what it is you want, and you start on the path to get it, you become hugely attractive! You become someone people want to follow, someone who has it worked out - you become irresistible!

Do you need a nudge along this path to knowing exactly what it is you want, and why?

You can chat to me at a time that suits you: find that time here.