The REAL Reason People Stay In The Wrong Job For Decades (And What Can Be Done About It)

How can you live your life according to a standard that is meaningful for you?  

Assessing your values is vital!

Like all of us - I made mistakes in my life, whether getting in with the wrong crowd, pursuing the wrong goals, or just not having any direction at all! When I think of what my poor parents had to put up with … 😢

Gradually, as a part of growing up and maturing, I realised the importance of integrity - of being in alignment with all my beliefs.

It was only when I laid out what my values were that I could measure my desires against them and know that I would feel good about it

Maybe you feel that something is off? You’re trying your best, but something just isn’t right. Whatever you do you get no further forward.

You get shafted by other people and you don’t see it coming! That person you thought was a friend ... And there’s a disconnect between what you think you believe and how your daily life plays out.

But unless you know what you truly believe nothing will feel right!

Once you know what is most important to you, you can transform your life! There are values you may not realise you had, and values you didn’t know you were missing out on!

You may feel strongly about a certain aspect, but realise you are not including that in your life …

So you need to list your values and live by them to achieve harmony in your life. It can be quite an eye-opener to realise that where you were going wrong was in ignoring your values and pursuing someone else’s dreams. 😮

You may have thought you were right on track, but looking closely at what’s truly important to you shows you that NO! you’re not! 

But once you’ve seen where the disconnect is, you can surge forward without that dragging, guilty feeling. As a Coach I hugely enjoy seeing clients getting their life aligned with their values so that difficulties melt away!

What next?

You see now that you have to work out what these dang values are so you can decide to live by them! So you need to find a way to isolate the most critical ones, find out where you’re missing the mark, and put things right. 

So out with the pen and paper, and get listing! Check that what you believe aligns with what you actually do.

The sooner you can do this, the sooner that feeling of discontent can be kicked to the kerb and you can see forward clearly to what you are meant to be doing with your one precious life!

If you want to thrash this out with me in a free coaching session, this is where to go.

See you soon!